Money and Mud

Considering the logical connection between money and mud:

Money is like mud. Consider a pool of mud…
Approach that pool of mud with a bucket. Scoop that bucket into the mud and take it out again. Watch the hole you have just made slowly disappear as the mud around it oozes over to cover it up. Wait a while longer and there is no hole left. Even longer and you cannot tell if a hole was ever made there. The pool of mud looks just like it did before you touched it. Perhaps the level of the pool has gone down a tiny little bit but that is the only change.

So it is with money…
We all have a set amount of money available to us. Be this through credit cards and loans or through savings. This is our pool of mud. When you purchase something with your money, you reach into your pool and scoop out the money you need for your purchase. This is the same as using a bucket to scoop out the mud. The size of your purchase determines the size (and impact) of your bucket. In making the purchase, you also leave a hole in the pool of money available to you. Over time however, the hole you made slowly disappears. Bigger purchases take longer to disappear than small ones, but eventually they all disappear (even the big ones like house loans). At this point your pool of money has stabilised again.

Small pools of mud…
Now if the pool of mud is too small then using the same sized bucket (amount of spending) will have a much bigger impact on the level of mud in the pool. The level may end up far too low, causing the mud to dry out. It may end up being so low that the impact of the scooped out hole is never covered over and an indentation always remains.

In a financial parallel this means that we have overspent and have gone beyond our ability to repay what we have spent. This is not a good mudpile to own.

Sloppy pools of mud…
If the mud is very sloppy (lots of extra cash around) then the hole you make will disappear much faster. Be careful though, because sloppy mud can splash out of the bucket very easily. The level of the pool will still drop the same amount relative to the size of the bucket of course.

Firm mud…
Should the mud be very firm (rigid budgeting) then scooping your bucket into the pool will be difficult and the hole it leaves will never fill up again, or will take a very long time. In this sort of situation, the next bucket of mud (money) must be drawn from another place (budget allocation) in the mud pool instead as the remaining hole prevents taking it from the same place.

Taking too much mud…
If you take too much mud from the pool without replacing it, the mud in the pool will eventually reach a critical level. At that point, the remaining mud is too small to remain mud. It will start to dry up and crack. Once it has you will not be able to draw any further mud from that pool (financial crisis) without a new supply of mud (funds).

Summing all of this up is a quote from an old advertising slogan from years back. It says something like:

“You remember the quality long after you forget the price.”

And that is the relationship between money and mud.

How to break a habit

Breaking habits can be done. It requires time and patience. Some people say it is hard. No one has said that it is impossible.

Habits are things we do to occupy pieces of time. Time is permanent. It cannot be added to and it cannot be taken from. Habits must therefore be replaced so that the time they took is used more appropriately.

Habits are things we do to protect ourselves. If we are emotionally hurt or stressed then we have learned to respond in a way that appears to protect us. A poor response provides short term comfort and long term pain. There will always be times when we may feel stressed or threatened. We will always need a reaction. Bad habits here cannot be eliminated but must be replaced.

This is the secret to breaking habits.

Just trying to stop a bad habit works for a short time. It requires a lot of strength. When our strength runs out so does our ability to prevent that habit from recurring.

Replacing a habit with something else builds into us a new pattern of behaviour. It too takes strength at the beginning. After a time the old patterns are broken and the new habit patterns begin to replace them. Eventually the new patterns turn into a new habit.

The new habit will now be used in place of the old one. The old habit has given way to the new.

Habit broken!

Feeding the Hungry

It seems such a little thing to do. Taking ten minutes of time out of life to help someone who needs it. Spending that time talking with someone who may be lonely. Spending $2 or so on food for someone that is hungry. But it makes such a difference to those people.

Just Another Day
Today was another wet day just like the last few had been. I was not studying at the moment so I decided to take a walk along the street and check out the shops. With no real shelter for the rain, I hugged the shop fronts for the little protection they gave as I wandered along.

It was a book shop that caught my attention, and I spent twenty minutes looking through the selection of Spanish books on offer. There seemed to be nothing in the area I was looking for, but then I was not sure that there ever would be either. I wanted a book that was easy to read with my simple Spanish skills, but about a complicated topic such as politics, history, or globalisation. Not an easy ask, and when I found nothing I headed back out to the street.

The Encounter
As I stood at the entrance to the shop, wondering where I would go next, in my side-vision I noticed a man moving along quite slowly. Turning to see why, I realised that he was on crutches. The reason for the crutches was his leg. It was missing.

He looked up at me and asked feebly, “¿moneda?” It was the way most people on the streets asked for money, although “moneda” specifically refers to coins. He was not the usual chap for the streets, and he had asked the wrong person for money.

A long time ago I was warned against giving money to anyone that asked for it. I have always heeded that advice ever since. The problem is that money can be converted into anything, and often is converted to alcohol or other drugs of choosing. Instead I normally offer to buy what they need.

The Offer
While this man was looking up at me, for I was standing on the elevated shop floor still, I asked him if he wanted to eat. He nodded in agreement, and I joined him on the street. Nearby was a hotdog and hamburger shop so I pointed to that and we made our way over to the store. He was slow on his crutches, and I stayed with him as he wandered, thankful that the rain had paused at just this moment.

Once we arrived at the shop, busy and filled with customers, I ordered our food and we took a seat down at the back of the place. As we ate, this man slowly started to realise that I was genuine, and as he did, his conversation became more detailed and animated. It was here that his story started to unfold.

It is times like this that I wish my Spanish was so much better than it really is. The deep accent and murky pronunciation made it hard for me to understand the words I knew, and almost impossible to pick up on any new ones throughout the conversation. But I persisted.

The Event
Through a mouth full of food, he told of how it was only four months ago that he had had both legs. He was working hard on the day that it happened. It was out on a street, somewhere nearby judging by his gestures, and some sort of machine ran over it. I assumed it was a road works machine.

I could not determine exactly what it was that happened, only that it took place four months ago. He was still using medication to keep the pain down, and showed me many of the tablets that he had to take. These were in one of the pockets of his torn and tired backpack, from which he also produced his medical documentation needed for visits to the hospital.

Goodbyes
When lunch was finished we rose to leave. Outside the shop, using the only two words of English that he knew, my new friend said, “goodbye.” Then, before I pulled away, he grabbed my arm, and with trembling lips he really thanked me. I felt that thank you rise up from the bottom of his heart.

A tear streamed from his eye as I acknowledge his thanks. After that we parted. Where he went or what he did I do not know. I just know that he was hungry, and I did what I would want anyone else to do for me. I offered him a meal.

Moved Again

Well, I have moved again. It seems to be that every few weeks I find another place to live.

Now I am living in one of the nicer suburbs of Buenos Aires, in a hostel that also has a Spanish school in it. Once again I have managed to cut my costs of living yet again.

My new place is called Archie’s Hostel, in Azcuénaga Street, Recoleta. A newly opened hostel with many bright colours and friendly staff, it is a breath of fresh air compared with the historic hotel I was living in before.

I do miss being so close to the centre of town though, but there are many wonderful things around here to discover now too.

A 9 Hour Walk – The Docks

One Sunday I woke up and thought I would take a stroll. Never did I expect that it would take me nine hours. My initial thought was to wander down to the docks of the main port of Buenos Aires and see what was there. Being a Sunday I found out that there was not many people here at all. I also discovered that it was a long long way between each dock.

Too late too far
By the time I was ready to return home, I was too far from anywhere to do it. Any passing taxi was carrying passengers to or from the nearby airport, and there were no buses to be seen. So I was left with the choice of returning the way in which I had come or continuing on, but I am ahead of myself. Let me regress.

Avenida 9º Julio
On a clear, sunny morning I left my hotel in jeans and t-shirt, unaware it would be such a hot day. My destination was the widest road in the world, Avenida 9º Julio. I had never seen how it started, or ended, so I went for a walk to see.

After walking the other way along this busy road many times, it seemed out of place to see so few cars using it. I supposed that I had risen before many Porteños on this Sunday morning and considered this the reason for the dribble of cars that waited at each set of lights. In any case the street was very empty indeed.

Flanked on both sides by large strips of green, I found fountains and statues all along my walk. I had never noticed them on other sections before. They were both big and small, significant and diminished in size, and each had its own story to tell.

Large fences around some declared their need for protection, although they were all showing the damage of abuse. Fountains not flowing with water anymore told of a city still in need. Signs and plaques stating their purpose for being were missing, their identity stolen. Others needed such protection as to be electrified. Although interesting, the stories told were not all lovely.

A Distraction Or Two
Nearing the end of the road I discover a building out of place. The French Consulate protruded out onto the road. Well, at least it could not be any closer. It stood alone. It was for this reason that I noticed Plaza Cataluña.

Nestled along one side of the French Consulate, Plaza Cataluña was a very small park. It was not very pretty either. Never-the-less, a few people were there giving their dogs an outing and soaking up the sun on the little amount of grass that could be found. It was not this however that caught my interest in this park.

In the middle of the park was a huge light post. As we all know, light posts do not need to be huge to support the light at the top. That is why I was so interested. A huge light post with a very wide base. It drew me closer, searching for a reason. As I approached I saw taps, and bowls. It was then that I realised that this was a drinking fountain. I had never seen anything like it before. A donation from Barcelona city, Spain.

I turned to see a small, triangular shaped plaza with a lovely fountain and a monument to Carlos Pellegrini, president of Argentina 1846-1906. Around me were a number of consulates, mostly in buildings of lovely architecture, adorned in beautiful brass fittings. It seemed right to pause for a while and simply admire all that I was seeing, but I did have an agenda and before long I found my way back to the now diminishing street of Avenida 9º Julio.

Overly concerned with my distractions, I had not noticed that I was already at the end of the road. It continued on, but as an expressway elevated above the city below. From here I would have to find another road.

Metal Monsters
I headed down into the city streets and discovered another huge road, Avenida Libertador. This road carries vehicles Northward along its 12 lanes starting near Retiro.

As I near Retiro, which is the main station for all trains heading north, I discover a museum of scrap-metal art. Creatures line the side of a long building, scattered along a dirt track. Inside is even more, at a cost, but outside there is more than enough to satisfy me.

As I walk, a crocodile snarls at me with its vicious pointed iron teeth, painted in blood red. Further along a T-Rex towers over me, and even though I can see through all of the rods, plates, pipes, and discs that make up his form, it takes little imagination to see him come alive with fury.

Aeroplanes that will never fly, trucks that would never drive, and a dog without a voice, all created from unwanted scraps. A man with a creative imagination, an endless source of scrap metals, and a lot of time. A fascinating walk through junk.

Sizing Up The Port
From here it was only a short way to the port. Well, the first gate actually, and there were six more to come. Now I had seen this on the map, but for some reason I thought things were closer than I was about to discover.

Gate One
At the first gate I walked right up to the guards and asked them about this place how it was used. It turns out that each person I asked only knew about their particular section. No-one had an overview of the whole port, and on a day that was getting very hot, most were more interested in remaining in the shade than answering my questions.

It turns out that the first gate is specifically for buses and trucks. It was hard to understand all that was said, but it sounded like they were loaded onto and off the ships from this point. I can only assume that it would be to take them over to Uruguay.

Gates Two and Three
Realising that I was not going to get any further conversation out of the guards, I turned and headed for the next two docks. Twenty minutes of walking took me alongside a Naval Barracks, with signs outlawing pedestrians after dark. A further twenty minutes and I was still wandering down the long street beside the port. It was around here that I started to get a feel for the size of this place.

The road I was wandering was shadowed by large trees all along the sidewalk. The shade from these trees missed the sidewalk, falling onto the road instead, so this is where I walked, trying to stay cool. It was lucky for me that each side of the road was as wide as four lanes. I knew the cars would not mind if there was room for both of us.

There was no second gate. I considered that perhaps this had been seconded by the Navy. At the third gate however, I found only two people here. One was in an office and didn’t want to know me, and the other was a guard that was busy pouring himself a mate, a customary drink in Argentina. He looked up from his task and said very little, except that he didn’t know anything about this place in as few words. Unperturbed, I wandered onward.

Reaching The End
Once my shield of trees were left behind, the heat of the day became ever so obvious to me. Beads of sweat streamed down my face and my clothes grew heavy as they soaked it up. It seemed to take much longer to reach the next gates as I hunted for patches of shade along the way.

Gates Four and Five
When I reached the next gates I discovered both four and five off the same point. The guards here seemed quite bemused that I would wander through such heat to ask them anything at all. Fancy seeing a tourist out here on a Sunday, and at midday too. They happily answered my questions, and I learned that this was the area for shipping containers, although it was obvious by looking.

Gate Six
In wandering to the next gate, I thought I had gotten lost. The road took a turn away from the water before heading back again. When I finally reached the sixth dock, it was a long road in to meet the security guards at their gate. Two very official men in Port Authority suits, after I had asked my questions, they started asking me lots of questions.

A Case for ID
Probably the most significant question was whether I had identification on me. The guard asking this alluded strongly to my passport. I told him that I did not have that with me, and it proved to be a sticking point. Throughout the rest of our conversations he continually returned to this question of ID.

I told him that in Australia I didn’t need to carry identification on me and so I was not carrying my passport with me. I did not tell him about any other forms of ID that I had on me. It seemed a mute point when he was constantly asking to see a passport. He seemed to get over this eventually, and I was able to make my leave.

Ignoring Dangers
After these last gates, I somehow thought there would be another. I walked a long way, along the lonely hot road as it hugged the waterside. Grain houses and storage facilities that were used at one time to load and unload ships lined the other side of the road. All of them now were deserted and abandoned, some with clothes lines strung up along them as signs of new inhabitants.

Rusted conveyor belts, stiffened old cranes and dilapidated refueling pontoons half immersed in the water all pointed to long periods of disuse. Sand banks all along the edge of the dock now supported many of these structures. Signs along the waterside declared all objects unsafe and warned against swimming in this area. Pollution, rubbish, and the muddy waters would chase most people away from here anyway.

It was surprising then when I saw children climbing on one of these half submerged pontoons. Jumping and swimming in the murky muddy waters around it, I first heard their shrill voices crying out with joy. The water looked deep, even such a short distance from the sand bank, and the children did not seem to notice the faint green scum floating on the surface.

Ships backed onto the dock’s edge, their rusting hulks held securely by the sands supporting them. Unable to voyage again, I assumed they were ghosts of what once was, but then I saw the people. Inside the cabins was a home with lights and running water. Decorations declaring life provided a stark contrast against the dead and rotting carcasses of each ship.

A rubbish truck on the side of the road had a crowd of mostly children to the side of it. As I walked I watched, amazed, as almost 20 people climb into the cabin. As I continued past it I saw that the windscreen had been smashed in two places by a brick. It was then that I also discovered the children had climbed into the back section, probably where the rubbish would normally have been stored. Beaten and battered, the truck hardly looked fit to drive.

Further along the sand banks grew wider, reaching further out into the dock. A couple of men were at the edge of this sand, standing in the sun, with their fishing rods firmly grasped. The further I walked the more fishermen I saw. While the men fished, the families played on the brown sands, or toyed with the waters at the edge.

Poisoned waters, rotting ships, decaying buildings. Peoples lives were linked to all of this. By the time I reached the end I was hot and weary from the unrelenting sun, and I just wanted refuge.

A Forced Decision
After walking for over four hours I felt worn out. It was just then that I saw the oasis of refuge that I needed. A service station. Thankful for the cool air conditioning and a bottle of cold water to quench my thirst, I recuperated for a while before I felt ready to continue.

Had I been given the choice, now would have been a great time to return home and rest, but I did not seem to have many choices. I was too far from transport to do anything but walk. All taxis out this way were carrying passengers on their way to or from the local airport, and there were no buses to be seen. With little choice but to retrace my steps home or continue, I decided to continue, heading toward some parks that I was planning on seeing some day anyway.

…to be continued [ED: The next part was never finished.]

In The Shadow Of Giants

Every day. Day in and day out. Wherever you walk. There are people. Blind people. Handicapped people. Amputees. Single mums. Everywhere. All are needy people. All stand to the side of the road. Next to the tall buildings. In the shadow of giants.

The Encounter
Very late one night as I was returning home, I saw one of these people sitting just outside the entry to my hotel. A young mother in a sloppy green t-shirt, many times unwashed, sat on a limited blanket shared between her and her four year old son. He was curled up tight on his tiny share of the blanket, sleeping as soundly as one can when in the midst of a very noise and brightly lit street.

She was leaning up against a cold tiled wall, the limp form of an exhausted two year old girl sleeping soundly in her arms. She was jingling a plastic cup containing a few measly coins, looking at nothing in particular as people walked on past, pretending not to notice.

I did notice though, so I stopped. I knelt down, and through my poor Spanish, I started talking with this lady. What pursued was an interesting insight into her life and the life of many people on the streets. It was a look into the systems of government and lack of government in Argentina, and a growing understanding of the needs that litter this country.

The Seasons
Rose (not her real name) had been on the streets for just on a year now. Summer, when the nights are warm and many tourists are in the city, things are quite good for them. Winter however is much harder. Lots of rain and freezing days with colder nights.

What does Rose do during winter? “The same thing” she says, “only we wear a lot more clothes.” “The hardest thing about winter” Rose continues, “is that this little one is asthmatic and it plays up during winter” and with that she looks to the little bundle of joy held in her arms. Medicine then becomes yet another burden of cost.

The Support
Rose had a husband at one point, but he had run away from the responsibility and left her with the children. She could not find any work though she had tried. She explained to me that there are very few jobs that a woman can do in Argentina while she has dependent children who need attention.

Of her family, Rose’s mother died four years ago, her father having also run away when Rose was just a young child. Apparently, Rose tells me, she has nine brothers and sisters, but since they are all half-brothers and half-sisters she has never once met them and has no idea who they are. All progenies of her wayward father.

So what of government support for people in these situations? Rose is quick to point out that although in Australia there are things like this, in Argentina the government does not offer any support at all. This means that for Rose, there is only one way to get money to live.

The Need
So here she is on the streets trying to get enough money to live. From late morning until somewhere around three thirty in the early hours of the morning, she jangles her cup of coins looking to the compassion of the people to help her survive. No bank account, not many clothes save those she can carry around with her, and very few friends upon which to lean upon.

About three months ago she found some form of accommodation in a deserted old bank building a few blocks from the city. This she shares with many other homeless people. Living on the streets in the city centre is not very dangerous at all, I am told, although some regional places are to be avoided. The policemen ignore her, which is good while she is begging, but becomes a dilemma should she need help.

The Person
Living a life on the streets, where people try to avoid you or ignore you, would make many people hard. Rose tells of many with whom she stays, how they abuse alcohol and drugs because of the sorrow of their hearts. Yet as I talked with Rose, I could see she was not bitter inside.

Rose’s gentle and open face revealed a person not willing to let circumstances affect her. She had willingly told me about her life and those things happening around her. Sometimes she even smiled about some of them.

She continues to talk with me, telling me about her young son, still asleep on his corner of the blanket. “He will be going to school soon,” she says with some obvious relief in her voice. Soon was meaning in the next year or so, but we had been talking about how he was coping with life on the street. I gathered that by the way she said this that it will be good from him. Cost was not an issue either because the schooling is free in Argentina. Perhaps it will also give her an opportunity to work.

The Money
So how much does it take to keep a family of three alive each day? “Oh,” said Rose, “$15 pesos each day just for accommodation. And food… well. You know food, it is such a changing thing. It really depends on what you want or need at the time. You cannot eat cheap foods all the time. It is just not good for you.”

I estimated that on a light day Rose would need close to thirty pesos in total, and ask, “Do you make that much each day?” She thinks about it a little, “Some days I make more, but most of the time… no.” And then she hastens to add, “But it works out.”

The Gift
I glanced at my watch. We had been talking for almost an hour. With the night fading quickly, I thanked Rose and got up to leave. I was very aware that Rose had not begrudged me any of the time of our conversation, even though this was time needed to recive further money.

Throughout our conversation, from the time I stopped to talk, I had been feeling that I needed to give Rose $20 pesos. Now this was a large amount, even for me, and so I held back during the entire conversation. Every time I considered giving her something I was always confronted with seeing the same amount.

In my heart I only wanted to give five, or at most ten pesos, but the larger amount would not leave my eyes. So, not knowing why so much was needed, I pulled out twenty pesos and gave this to Rose. She was very grateful.

Then, not knowing how to part, I said “thank you,” and left.

The Reason
At 3am in the morning it started raining. A massive thunderstorm came directly over the city, pouring down torrents of rain. The streets quickly filled up with deep puddles of water, and every drain was working overtime to direct the waters out to the sea.

I woke up. Lying there watching the room light up with every flash of lightning, I thought about Rose and her children. I thought about the money I had given her. Was this money just what she needed at this point in time? Was it God that had prompted me to give it? It certainly seemed like it. Was Rose and her children now somewhere safe?

The Result
These questions and more remain unanswered, but would I see Rose again, I should like to ask her. Until then I am happy to assume. I assume that God had prompted me to give this amount. I assume that this amount was what she needed for that night. I assume that one day I may find out.

Rose. Only one of many who live… in the shadow of giants.

Baires Update, One Month…

Well it is true… I have now been here for almost one month. 27 days to be exact. What have I done over this time? What will I be doing next? Has anything gone wrong? What has happened about meeting this guy? Have I seen much of Argentina yet? All these questions I hope to answer for you in the following paragraphs.

What have I done over this time?
What have I done over the course of four weeks in Buenos Aires (locally know as Baires)? The most succinct answer would be that I have been studying Spanish all this time. And it would be completely true.

The very day that I arrived, I wandered into town and booked myself into the next course in Spanish, starting the next day. Actually it had already started, so I slotted in two days late and continued on with the course. I have been there ever since, every week day from 9am to 3pm.

In the mornings I normally sleep until it is time to go to school. In the afternoons I spend the afternoon until dark doing my homework and studying in the parks of Plaza de Mayo, or Plaza San Martín, both located in the heart of the city.

At night I watch movies, have visited YWAM, use the Internet, sleep, study more, and wander the streets of the city looking at all of the interesting shops and places here and still trying to make sense of it all.

Weekends usually are a chance for some more sleep (can you see I either really love sleep or don’t get enough of it during the week), time in the parks again reading my books and doing more study, and just aimless wanderings around the city.

Today, A Typical Saturday
As an example of what I do on weekends, today I had intended to wander out through Recoleta to the cemetery and nearby parks that sound really pretty. But first I went shopping for some things that I had been putting off, which took me a couple of hours. Since I had never shopped for these items before I needed to be sure I wasn’t paying too much for them… which I was in some instances. Then, as I shopped I discovered a photography exhibition which I absolutely just had to see. It was fantastic. Right next to this exhibition was a Salvador Dali exhibition, who is one of my favourite artists, so I had to stop there also.

By then it was too late to go to the cemetery and I headed to Plaza San Martín instead. What should I find there but another photo exhibition on large stands weaving throughout the park. Huge photos displayed many different places and people throughout the world, as seen from the air. It was very different and extremely interesting, and I joined the heavy crowds in trying to gain a viewing space of the photos. After feasting my eyes, I lay on the grass reading one of my newly acquired Spanish books (with electronic dictionary in hand) until it was dark.

A local shopping centre provided dinner and allowed me to discuss with my phone company why I cannot send and receive text messages. Apparently it should be possible, so I will be pursuing this(*). After that I went and saw the movie “El Pez Grande (The Big Fish)” which kept me entertained for a couple of hours as I read the Spanish subtitles as fast as possible, trying to understand it all, and after this I am now here on the internet, writing to you. That was my day.

Am I learning anything?
So after all of these weeks of Spanish, am I learning anything? Well yes and no. I am certainly learning much and am able to read things now and understand much of what I am reading. I can hear and understand about half of what is said too, but in speaking I am not so fluent and often come to a grinding halt trying to think of the word or phrase to use to explain my thoughts. Still, I continue to try and am slowly seeing improvements.

What will I be doing next?
For now, it will be much of the same. More study. More wanderings. More emails. And making more friends. Since I am going to be living in this Spanish speaking country, it is imperative that I learn the language. So this remains my goal for as long as I am still in Baires (Buenos Aires).

Has anything gone wrong?
Everything has gone right actually. If you are referring to my timing for arriving here and meeting this guy (see below) then it is all going well. There have been a number of different things that have happened on the way to confirm to me that this is where and what I should be doing right now, and I feel very comfortable with this too, which is a good indication also. So all is very well right for now and I am looking forward to meeting this guy.

What has happened about meeting this guy?
Glad you asked that. Now you may or may not know, I am expecting to meet up with a guy here. He is someone that I have never met before in my life nor do I know through any other circumstance. The actual timing of when I meet up with him I am not yet sure, but that I WILL meet up with him I am absolutely certain. So now all I do is sit back, keep learning my Spanish and wait. The time will come when this happens, and I will be sure to let you know as soon as it does.

Have I seen much of Argentina yet?
Not really. Studying so much leaves little of the day to do much else, and I have not really cared to look around too far yet. After so much touring during my world travels I have been quite content to settle back into a daily routine. My feet are slowly starting to grow itchy now though, and I am now keen to get out and see what this amazing city has in the way of sights, so I will be heading out more soon.

I have just purchased a Spanish kids book on tourist sights in Baires, and since it is for kids, I find it easier to read for me too. This has now become my guide for what to see and how to get there. There is much to see of this place, and I look forward to sharing some of my experiences with you as they happen.

Until then, take care.
Regards, Rob.

(*) Mobile Phone Txting
For those of you with mobile phones, try texting (and/or calling) me on this number instead:

+5411 154-676-731 (54=Argentina, 11=Bs.As, 154676731=my number)

…and let me know how it goes.

[EDITED: this number is no longer valid, but was left here for the sake of completeness. Please check the contact page for the current phone number].

A Prayer For Friends

When I think of my prayer in the morning, and how the events of the day turned things to what they are now, I am amazed. Some would call it luck, fate, or chance. I would call them wrong. How thankful I am that God hears and answers our prayers.

The Prayer
I woke up this morning and realised that the only friends I have had since arriving in this place were tourists who kept moving on, and teachers from my courses, who remained as professional friends. When I prayed this morning, I prayed earnestly to God for at least one local friend. Someone that actually lived in this city and that was a local, whom I could call a friend.

After praying, I felt God promise me that I would find such a person soon. I did not know when that was and did not expect it would be today.

Changing Plans
On leaving my hotel I felt that I should turn right. Most of the time I simply turned left and wandered into the heart of the city. Today however I wandered up to the incredibly wide road, Avenida 9th July.

My plans had started off rather certain for the day, I knew where I was about to go and what I wanted to do. However, as I reached the Avenida, I felt that this was not what I needed to do today. This then left me without any plans, so instead I simply sat down in the park surrounding the Obelisk and enjoyed the sun.

The Obelisk, a very tall white pointy thing for which there is very little reason it exists save to serve as one of the most known sights in Buenos Aires, stands directly in the middle of Avenida 9th July. It is surrounded by a rather large park, around which all 16 lanes of traffic have to curve. It was in this park that I sat, soaking up the sun and pondering upon what exactly I should do next.

A walk to a nearby park which I had not yet seen was most uninteresting, and revealed yet one more place lacking in maintenance. Some impressive buidings nearby held my attention for a moment, but I soon found myself wandering back to my side of Avenida 9th July where a local Pizza shop enticed me to stop for lunch. After all, who can refuse an All-You-Can-Eat pizza deal for only $4.90 pesos.

While enjoying my pizza, I remembered promise a staff member at my old hostel that I would return to say hello once I had left. It had been two weeks now since leaving, and I had not returned. Realising that I needed to keep my word, I headed straight there. On my way I passed a frenzy of fans gathering to see the last ever show of Bandana, an Argentine pop group.

Visiting San Telmo
After visiting the hostel, I decided that since I was so close to San Telmo I would wander through there and see some more of this place. San Telmo is the land of arts and crafts and everything old imaginable. Much of what is sold in the markets at San Telmo is considered junk to most other people, although I think they just keep holding onto it until it becomes valuable. Bottles and coins, brass and iron, broken and working, old and new, all could be found here.

I had passed through and around the streets and was ready to simply stop and rest. The place I found was against a wall directly in line of sight of a “statue mime”, one of those people who stand motionless on a box until someone gives them some money. There seems to be no end to them throughout the city of Buenos Aires, and San Telmo has more than its share.

While leaning against the wall, I started staring directly back at this mime, intent on breaking their motionless expression. It was at this moment that I was approached by someone, whom I was about to learn was Victoria, from LIFE Argentina. She paused at first, thinking that I was posing for a photo or something, but seeing her hesitation, I broke my game with the mime and started chatting with her.

LIFE Argentina
Although our conversation started briefly in Spanish it quickly changed to very good English. It turns out that LIFE Argentina is a non-profit organisation helping underprivileged children in the city and province of Buenos Aires. The first conversation was whether I could help them out financially, but at that point in time I couldn’t.

From there, things could have stayed as they were. Victoria had gone back to trying to solicit money from other passersby, and I resumed my game with the mime. They probably would have stayed as they were actually, if it were not for the fact that I looked over and saw the table and umbrella of the LIFE stand sitting only a few metres from me.

When I looked over I really felt that I should go over and ask more about it. I stayed where I was at first, but then caught sight of this girl being constantly rejected by so many people as she approached them for money to finance the organisation she so believed in. That was all I needed to get me moving, and I wanded over to the stand to find out more about it.

So it was that I found out about the details of what they do with the children and how they help them in so many situations. In our conversation I discovered that LIFE itself is not affiliated with any church but is simply a non-profit organisation run by volunteers. In response to my question however, Victoria informed me that she was a Christian, as were others in the organisation.

Like Minded People
During our conversation I also met her brother, Gabriel, and another girl from LIFE who was also there at the time. Afterwards, we exchanged contact details and will be getting in touch about the next activities of LIFE this week. I expect that I will be getting involved with them over this next week or so, helping out with the kids where I can.

How amazing it is to discover like-minded people in the most unexpected places. To think that if I had kept to my original plans I would never have met these great people, nor had the opportunity to help out the kids in Buenos Aires. It is great to know not only locals, but also Christians willing to make a difference in this place.

When I think of my prayer in the morning, and how the events of the day turned things to what they are now, I am amazed. Some would call it luck, fate, or chance. I would call them wrong.

How thankful I am that God hears and answers our prayers.